Why We Created This Space
This space is dedicated to sharing real-life advice, tips, and experiences straight from teens to teens.
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We built this platform in memory of Layla, whose life was tragically cut short. Layla was a bright light who cared deeply for others, and we wanted to honor her by creating something meaningful.
By reaching out to her friends and other teens in our community, we’ve gathered this heartfelt advice, encouragement, and support to help others navigate life’s challenges. Our goal is to provide a positive space where teens can find guidance, avoid the heartbreak of similar tragedies, and feel empowered to face whatever comes their way.
This is for Layla, and for every teen who needs to know they’re not alone.
Your Words Matter
We’re building a wall of encouragement for teens—and we need you!
Right now, there are teens facing tough choices, difficult days, and moments where a few kind words could make all the difference. 💬💛
Whether it’s advice, a quote that got you through, or a simple reminder that they’re not alone—your message can help them feel seen, valued, and supported.
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Peer pressure and abusing substances can lead to permanent damage and it’s important to know that too much alcohol can lead to bad decisions especially as a young teenager who’s just living in the moment and doesn’t realize the risks, they are taking can also take a young innocent life.
Layla loved the weekend with her friends and what happened to Layla made a lot of younger girls who did the same things realize the seriousness of what one bad decision can lead to.
So, if I had to give some advice to not only teenagers but adults is, next time you drank more then you should have and someone offers you a drive home who is also intoxicated, think about what it could lead to. What it could take from family and friends your life is not worth one mistake.
Don’t take that drink just because someone handed it to you, don’t take that risk because someone offered it to you and when you see people around you making a bad decision, be the bigger person and say no.
- Layla's friend
16 years old
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If I were to give Layla advice about good choices and drinking right now, I would have to say please think, think before you do it.
So, if you know that choice is good or bad and if that choice ends up being bad, don’t do it.
Don’t listen what others have to think but think of your own choice and actions of what you do.
- Layla's friend
15 years old
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If I am being completely honest, I think a lot of things are hard to understand until you deal with it firsthand. We all know that drinking is bad for you, and we all know that drunk driving is dangerous but, we don’t think those unfortunate things will happen to us or our loved ones until it does.
If I could go back and speak to Layla before the accident, I would let her know that there will always be someone willing to pick her up from an unsafe situation, even if she fears it may end in anger or an argument with her mom, we would’ve much rather enjoyed her being grounded for a few weeks than writing our speeches for her funeral.
I would tell her that reaching out and asking for help (even if all you need is help with is getting home) does not make anyone view you as “weak” or “needy.”
At the end of the day, most parents would be thankful and proud that you called and got sober, safe drive home. Even if you are where you’re not supposed to be.
- Layla's friend
17 years old
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